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Friday Jan 07, 2022
Friday Jan 07, 2022
Dr. Baucum is a professor who teaches marketing-focused courses to undergraduates and Master of Business Administration (MBA) students. She specializes in working with businesses and organizations that either are owned by black, Indigenous and People of Color (BIPOC) and/or serve BIPOC. Dr. Baucum conducts quantitative research focused on understanding how brand symbols influence the consumption behaviors and habits of BIPOC.
The pursuit of PhD excellence begins the moment you choose to apply to your program and continues until you walk across the stage at your graduation ceremony, and beyond! In this episode, we speak with Dr. Natalie Baucum about her experience obtaining her doctorate and how she uses this experience to support BIPOC students who are making the same journey in their own lives.
Being a woman in STEM and getting over imposter syndrome (IS)Impostor syndrome is a term coined by two American psychologists, Pauline Rose Clance and Suzanne Imes. In 1978 they were the first to study the phenomenon in high-achieving women. As such, it is also known as the impostor phenomenon (IP). Women affected by IP experience persistent feelings of intellectual fraudulence. This feeling can affect their academic or professional careers, their self-perception, and their interactions with others (for example students). They have an intense fear that if other people know about their true level of ability, that they will no longer be seen as successful. It has been suggested that the frequency at which impostorism affects women makes it both a significant and understudied problem for girls' achievement. Although the majority of research into the topic has focused on women, IS does not appear to be gender-specific; prevalence amongst men has been reported too. Additionally, the concept is increasingly being used to describe a broader range of experiences than originally defined by Clance and Imes. Studies indicate that between 70% and 95% of all people have experienced the impostor phenomenon sometime during their lives. It has been found to impact school performance, work productivity, interpersonal relationships, job satisfaction and mental health.
Getting involved in social justice issues while pursuing your PhDWe often feel that our PhD work is a solitary enterprise, but it doesn’t have to be. In fact, your academic work can inspire others. It can make a difference in the lives of your peers and colleagues in the university community as well as people outside of it. However, getting involved isn’t something you do on the side; social justice issues are very much intertwined with the process of being a scholar. Getting involved isn’t just an extra-curricular activity—it’s integral to who we are as academics and members of society.
Dealing with being Black in academia and facing racism in your department/thesis committeeBeing a person of color in academia is an experience unlike any other. In fact, it can be summed up in one word: racism. This experience varies greatly from individual to individual, yet all POC share some similar struggles when entering a predominantly white academic environment. One of the most difficult aspects is dealing with racism as an integral part of your university experience. Oftentimes, issues pertaining to race are never discussed or acknowledged for fear that people would think less of you for being Black/Latino/Asian/Gay/Transgender (insert identity here). However, how do we address problems in our communities if they aren’t acknowledged? If you are pursuing a PhD in the Sciences or Engineering, chances are your department or thesis committee is predominantly white. How then do you deal with being black in academia and facing racism in your department/thesis committee? Here is my personal approach based on my own experiences and observations as a black woman who has been involved in higher education for over a decade. It may not work for everyone, but perhaps sharing these insights might help others deal with their unique situation.
At SouthernSoulLiveStream.com - Show & Music Hangout we cover a variety of topics, this week we’re hosting an episode for scholars, researchers, students, academics, and lifelong learners.
Connect with Dr. Natalie Baucum
Website: https://www.linkedin.com/in/thepolymathicprofessor/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepolymathicprofessor/
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Monday Jan 03, 2022
Monday Jan 03, 2022
A women’s ministry leader shares her path to becoming a marriage coach and the advice she gives women in her wives' bible study. Listen as she describes the difficulties she encountered along the way and how they have made her better at coaching others. You’ll also hear an honest, sincere, and down-to-earth conversation with our special guest as she shares her path and approach to a healthier marriage. In this episode you will learn:
What is biblical coaching and training for wives? - We need training in how to encourage and exhort one another day by day. Paul said, I urge that supplications, prayers, intercessions, and thanksgivings be made for all people (1 Timothy 2:1-2). Biblical coaching is a powerful way to help wives fulfill their potential.
What about women’s ministries that seem to perpetuate and promote a husband’s expectation of his wife’s subservience? - Imagine if we taught our girls from a young age that it’s not about serving their husbands; it’s about living out their own destinies as created by God for His glory! That is at least one way we can change the culture for our daughters and granddaughters.
What does healthy communication look like? - We need to speak into our relationships, and we also need to listen. If a couple is struggling with communication, they should first look inward: how can they become better listeners? Do they interrupt each other too much? Are there things that trigger defensiveness in them? We can’t expect others to change if we’re not willing to look at our own behaviors and attitudes. With that said, healthy communication goes both ways.
Connect with Pastor Debra Cheek
Website: https://believingwives.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thebelievingwife/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/believingwives/
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Sunday Dec 26, 2021
Sunday Dec 26, 2021
As parents and caregivers, we put so much energy into helping our children become academically successful. We push for the right teachers, the right schools, and the right classes. What kind of skills do you find to be critical for us to instill in our children, regardless of their post-high school plans?
Making sure our kids are prepared to succeed in school and beyond isn’t just about academics, but also about preparing them to navigate the transition from high school to college successfully. Here, we’ll talk about what constitutes the college gap and how you can help your kids bridge it with college prep activities that improve study skills, time management, and memory recall. Here are some things to consider as you listen to this episode:
Setting Them Up For Success - Boost Your Kid’s Study Skills. The foundation of college success is built upon good study skills and is something we can be teaching our kids at an early age. Whether it’s learning how to manage their time effectively, memorizing their class notes, or mastering test-taking techniques and exam preparation—the earlier we begin teaching these essential skills, the easier and smoother their transition will be from high school into college life.
Getting Them Ready For Adolescence: Start Early, Build a Strong Foundation and Encourage Creative Thinking. Some parents put off giving their children study skills until they reach high school – by then it’s often too late. The longer you wait, the harder it is for kids to change entrenched habits of procrastination and disorganization. It’s important to begin developing habits of good study behavior early so that these skills become second nature during high school.
Helping Them Manage Their Time: Parents often forget that their kids have a life outside of school and extracurricular activities. It’s important that your child understands how to manage time effectively if they want their workloads, schoolwork, extracurricular activities, family time, and social life to balance properly. One way you can do that is by helping them develop study skills. The following are some tips and tricks students should learn in order to maximize their learning potential throughout high school.Research Papers Are Often Too Long/Too Wordy: Teachers should specify page length; but more importantly, students need to understand that research papers aren’t supposed to be a wiki-type experience where hundreds of sources are quoted verbatim with no analysis or commentary.
Providing Support on the Home Front: Tips on how to keep supporting your child even after you've given them all of your advice. Provide some tips on what parents can do to help their children through tough times, even when they’re not there with them. Be sure that everything you say is positive and encouraging.
At SouthernSoulPodcast.com - Livestream Podcast & Music Hangout we cover a variety of topics, this show we’re hosting a session for parents, high-school students, and families.
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Recommended by Dr. Rudy Jackson, Panel Moderator
College Prep Professionals help parents navigate the college admission and scholarship process by helping students develop personal Success Traits that win competitions for college admission and scholarships. CPP simplifies the planning/application process and shows parents where to focus their time and energy through 1-on-1 coaching and parent workshops. https://www.yourcollegepro.com/
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Friday Dec 17, 2021
Friday Dec 17, 2021
Black couples are increasingly looking towards the great outdoors to relax and spend time together, and so are other individuals who love nature and value privacy. With that in mind, it’s always important to consider the safety and comfort of yourself and your partner when getting ready to go camping as a black couple. Luckily, there are plenty of solutions that will make your trip to nature more comfortable than ever before! Here are some tips on how to prepare yourself, mentally and physically, for camping as a black couple.
Be PreparedThe most important tip is to be prepared. This includes packing enough food and water, clothes, camping supplies and other camping essentials in order to stay safe and comfortable. When it comes to safety, you want to be sure that you are well-prepared when venturing into unfamiliar territory. It’s also good to make sure that your campsite is off of public land so no strangers will disturb your peace during your trip.
Familiarize Yourself With the AreaWhether you’re camping near your home, or in an area you’ve never visited before, it’s important to familiarize yourself with your surroundings. Many popular camping destinations have local sites that feature discounts on supplies and food. You should be aware of these options beforehand so that you don’t find yourself paying more than necessary. It also helps to research where each site is located in order to plan out your route accordingly.
Dress AppropriatelyIn general, darker colors absorb more heat, so if you’re going to wear black, choose lightweight materials that can breathe (polyester or rayon are good options). You might also want to invest in some high-quality sunscreen—and not just because you’ll look cool. Although skin pigment helps protect against UV rays from damaging DNA within your skin cells, certain sections of your body (including your lips and ears) aren’t protected by melanin and are therefore more vulnerable.
Talk About ItWe all know that camping with your significant other is one of many amazing things that can bring you two closer together. As a black couple, however, there may be some additional challenges and questions you’ll want to discuss before heading out on your next big trip.
Observe Environmental EtiquetteYou’re not in your own backyard or in a tree house. While camping is one of our favorite activities, it can be quite disruptive to those around you if you’re unprepared. Observe environmental etiquette by showing respect to others who may be at campsites around you and be mindful of your surroundings.
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Connect with Sonya and Necota
Website: https://staplesintents.com/
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Thursday Dec 09, 2021
Thursday Dec 09, 2021
“Seventy percent of people experience trauma at some point in their lives,” says Reggie D. Ford. Like many others in his East Nashville neighborhood, Reggie could have been a victim of the streets. While crime, violence and poverty were second nature for many, Reggie knew in his heart he was destined for more. After graduating from Vanderbilt University, Reggie went on to open his own business, RoseCrete Wealth Management, and write a book titled PTSD: Perseverance Through Severe Dysfunction in which he re-examines the black experience in America.
To get through traumatic experiences, most people make the mistake of normalizing their trauma. When they do this, they turn a blind-eye to the problem and allow for the cycle of abuse to continue. For most of his life, Reggie lived this way. It wasn’t until the year when Reggie hit rock bottom that he began to truly understand the importance of mental health. Along his healing journey, Reggie had to understand trauma on both personal and generational levels. Knowing where his trauma was originating was the key to jumpstarting the healing process and beginning to break his generational trauma.
Tune into this week’s episode of Southern Soul Live Stream for a raw conversion about perseverance. Learn more about Reggie’s definition of PTSD and why mental health and wealth management are the keys to breaking the curse of generational trauma and poverty.
Quotes
• “Finance and understanding money was something that was important to me because I saw the pitfalls and mistakes that so many people in my family had made.” (06:18-06:27)
• “I had to recognize that a lot of the trauma that I faced was placed on me by those who came before me: my parents, my grandparents, those in my family that were older than me. And then in my healing process, I began to learn and understand what their traumas were.” (11:49-12:07)
• “When money is such a pressing issue in the house, anything can trigger you.” (14:19-14:23)
• “‘You can't control what's out of your control’ was something that my mom used to instill in me. It built up and helped to restore my confidence.” (22:01-22:12)
• “When you are in a traumatic environment, you normalize it and that becomes a defense mechanism just to keep pushing through it. But when you're removed from it and it’s reintroduced, that's when you start to feel negative effects.” (25:43-25:57)
• “I finally realized that my mental health had to be a priority for me or else I could not be productive, helpful or beneficial in any other aspect of my life.” (34:24-34:34)
Links
Connect with Reggie D. Ford:
• https://www.reggiedford.com/
• RoseCrete Wealth Management: https://www.rosecrete.com/
• Purchase Book - Perseverance Through Severe Dysfunction
https://www.amazon.com/Perseverance-Through-Severe-Dysfunction-Intergenerational-ebook/dp/B092CDBHLF
Healing and Trauma Playlist
https://open.spotify.com/playlist/1QvpmkuNRiq2hfoevb9BCm?si=umvMQ6uKQCmStftJhZ_OFQ&nd=1
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Friday Dec 03, 2021
Friday Dec 03, 2021
“Emotional wellness is a gift from God, but we've never been invited to take a deep look at it,” says Margaret L. Conley. Growing up in the church, Margaret couldn’t help but notice the overt gaps between faith and mental health. For the last decade, Margaret has worked in ministry focusing on the black church in the context of faith-based trauma. Margaret is both the owner and lead consultant at MLC Consulting, LLC where she serves adverse populations at the intersection of spirituality and emotional wellness. In today’s episode, Margaret takes a deep dive into emotional wellness and the future of the black church.
In the Bible, Paul teaches us to understand that we are made of many members. To start the healing process, Margaret explains that we need to first understand all of the parts that make us a cohesive whole. Just because we may be well-adjusted in one area doesn’t mean we don’t need to give attention somewhere else. When we bring our spiritual and emotional wellness into alignment, we allow our wounds to heal; and when we come from a space of healing, the black church will survive.
Tune into this week’s episode of Southern Soul Live Stream for a conversation about faith-based trauma. Learn more about how individual healing has the power to transcend generational traumas and heal broken communities and churches.
Quotes
• “In regard to the church, we've never been invited to take a deep look at our emotional wellness.” (12:31-12:38)
• “If we can rightly divide the text of the Bible, we will find that we are offered care by God, but humanity is who we need to connect to.” (20:15-20:24)
• “Faith-based trauma is any traumatic event that has happened based upon your faith tradition.” (23:53-23:59)
• “We need to be sensitive about trauma, so that we can start to see our churches and faith-based spaces heal.” (26:09-26:16)
• “Cast your cares upon God because God cares about that. Do not cast your care upon your pastor, because your pastor may not care about that.” (34:28-34:37)
• “I don't think the black church is dead. I think she will die if we don't start to take care of her physically, emotionally, and socially. If we don't start to take care of the black church in the totality of that, then we are giving her permission to die. I don't think the black church, in essence, wants to go. It's still a safe haven, in my opinion, it's still a place where we go. But we have become so sick in the need to be great that we've missed the reason for the formation of the black church.” (39:12-39:51)
• “If the black church can remember why she was formed, she won't die because she will remember that she was created to heal. She is the only entity in the world that will take anybody and she's the only entity in the world that will allow anybody to heal. She is like the Good Samaritan, everybody will walk over that hurt person but the black church. She will do what she can to process and begin the healing space.” (40:01-40:29)
• “If we can find a way to maneuver the church into a space where we are able to take care of our physical, emotional, social, and spiritual health, and know that these are parts of us that need to be taken care of, then the black church will not only survive, but she will begin to thrive and move beyond anything that people have designed for her to fail.” (43:15-43:38)
Links
Margaret L. Conley, LCSW, MDiv,CCISM, CAMS, CDWF of MLC Consulting LLC:
https://mlcconsultingllc.com/
https://www.facebook.com/MLCHHC/
Dr. Courtney Colleton:
https://www.instagram.com/courtneychronicles/?hl=en
https://www.linkedin.com/in/courtney-colleton-90011714/
Arva Thomas & Blue Monarch Communications LLC:
https://bluemonarchspeaks.com
https://facebook.com/bluemonarchspeaks
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Friday Nov 26, 2021
Friday Nov 26, 2021
Dr. Cherlisa Jackson has served clients in psychiatric care for over 13 years and has spent the last six specializing in psychosexual therapy. Knowing that the black community is disproportionately affected by STIs and all other sexual traumas, Dr. Cherlisa became inspired to open her own practice S.h.e.e.r. (Sexual Health Education, Esteem, & Relationships) where she helps couples and families increase their confidence and strengthen their relationships.
According to Dr. Cherlisa, it is crucial to establish boundaries before getting into a relationship. Rather than getting caught up in all of the things that you want, it is more important to first understand what you do not want. When we are honest with ourselves and understand our deal breakers, we are more likely to make productive decisions.
Tune into this week’s episode of Southern Soul Stream Live for a raw conversation with Dr. Cherlisa Jackson about sex and relationships. Learn more about the difference between chemistry and compatibility, the importance of honest communication, and how to make informed decisions that foster transparent and healthy relationships.
Quotes
• “I think honesty is probably the best thing. Communicate from the beginning and be flat out honest about what you actually want within somebody you're talking to.” (09:02-09:11)
• “When you skip that friendship step, you miss a lot of the compatibility stuff and you go straight into chemistry.” (11:13-11:19)
• “As a couple, you’ve got to be able to think together and people don't know how to do that if they skip being able to be compatible.” (14:12-14:17)
• “African American people are disproportionately affected by all things sex.” (15:33-15:36)
• “When it comes to why we are not protecting ourselves, most of the research shows that condoms look suspicious or break the mood and people aren't interested in doing that because they want to build trust. So when you take away protection, it's like a means of building trust.” (15:49-16:02)
• “The minute I pile someone else on top of my hurt and I don't work to filter through it or heal it, then it just becomes a bigger problem for the person I'm currently getting over.” (20:03-20:13)
• “You have to start with what you don't want so that you understand your boundaries, deal breakers, and what you're not willing to accept.” (32:31-32:39)
• “We see all these memes running around about red flags, and it's all because we don't establish deal breakers.” (32:58-33:04)
Links
Connect with Dr. Cherlisa Jackson:
https://www.sheerllc.com/about
https://www.facebook.com/CherlisaJackson/
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Friday Nov 19, 2021
Friday Nov 19, 2021
Have you ever wondered about the trials and tribulations of publishing your own book? Experts Dr. Robert L. Shepard, Dr. Daryl D. Green and Kaci Diane share their background in writing, publishing, and finding their artistic voices. They provide insights on the most important lessons learned while publishing their own pieces of writing and how they successfully landed their dream jobs.
Kaci Diane, self-publishing expert, shares her experience becoming comfortable with her artistic voice. She explains the importance of authenticity as the foundation of her writing. People can feel when someone is being honest and sincere, as it makes your words easier to connect with. Kaci explains how this concept will always be a staple in her work and encourages other writers to trust the process in their own genuinity.
Dr. Daryl D. Green, an internationally acknowledged author and researcher, and Dr. Robert Louis Shepard, motivational speaker and writer, discuss the word “reposition.” Dr. Shepard defines reposition as taking something and moving it from where it once was to somewhere else. This word symbolizes a change in one's life, and specifically in Dr. Shepard's life, a much-needed career change. Dr. Green resonates with reposition because he does not see retiring as an option for him, so he must reposition his lifestyle to fit around this new discovery. These two doctors encourage young writers and students to consider repositioning as a positive term that they can use to create more meaningful lives.
Tune into this week’s episode of Southern Soul Live Stream to hear from Dr. Daryl D. Green, Dr. Robert L. Shepard, and Kaci Diane about discovering your fulfilling career path. Learn more about life after retirement, the brilliance behind authentically written books, and educating youth on how to land their dream job.
Quotes
• “Publishing makes you kind of go through things with a fine comb and say, okay, what is useful for others? Like, what is best to share? And what is the best way to do that? What is the best way to tell the story that you're trying to tell?” (03:44-03:51 | Kaci Diane)
• “The first time I read a poem, I was so sad. I was like, this is life. And life is hard. And I was just a hot mess on the stage. And people were hugging me. And I'm like, I'm never not going to come back. I'm always going to be here, y'all are my people now.” (06:00-06:13 | Kaci Diane)
• “Reposition means that you just take something and move it from where it once was to somewhere else. That's exactly what I did. I moved myself from running an organization that I had formed. I had a staff. I had a payroll. I had an office, I had a lease and all of those things. And what I repositioned, I dropped that and just slid right over into the new things that are continually advocating for historically black colleges and universities.” (29:06-29:42 | Dr. Robert L. Shepard)
• “I think writing a book is one of the ways you become an expert instantaneously because people still have a fantasy and respect for authors.” (35:21-35:30 | Dr. Daryl D. Green)
• “Every African American that I know, every black person I know, they should have a tight relationship with God, they should have a personal relationship with God. Because God said, ‘I'm never going to leave you nor forsake you.’ And then he means that it's not about your pension plan. It's not about this. It's not about that. It's about your relationship with God. And if you maintain that, he's going to sustain you over your lifetime.” (1:09:18-1:09:43 | Dr. Robert L. Shepard)
Links
• Dr. Robert L. Shepard,'s book, Fulfilling My Destiny, Step by Step An Autobiography https://www.robertlouisshepard.com/
• Dr. Daryl D. Green’s book, Mapping Out Your Life After Retirement:
https://www.amazon.com/Daryl-D.-Green/e/B001K8ZYAM
• https://darylgreen.org/
• Kaci Diane's books: https://www.kacidiane.com/
Thanks for Groovin’ with Afro.Sheen:
• Soundcloud: https://soundcloud.com/afrosheen333
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/afro.sheen/
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Friday Nov 12, 2021
Friday Nov 12, 2021
In a predominately white industry, black wine lovers have often found it difficult to find inclusion in the business. While there are some popular black-owned wines, they only account for 1% of all existing companies. After discovering their own passions for wine, Ashley Rawlinson, Founder of HERitage Wines, and Shayla Varnado, Founder of Black Girls Wine & Society, became inspired to break these societal barriers by designing businesses that are rooted in black culture, femininity, and wine education.
Growing up as black women, neither Ashley nor Shayla had experience drinking wine. It wasn’t until they were introduced to it later in life that they realized how powerful the experience can be. Not only is wine diverse in flavor, but the women have also shared some of their favorite memories over a bottle of wine with their girlfriends. In order to show your support, Ashley and Shayla tell listeners to request black-owned wines from your local stores. Regardless of societal standards, it is important that people of color feel included in the wine industry.
Tune into this week’s episode of Southern Soul Live Stream to learn more about the community aspect of wine, the importance of supporting black-owned businesses, and how entrepreneurs like Ashley and Shayla are creating a new industry that is inclusive to all.
Quotes
• “People go where they're welcome. If I don't see anyone reflective of me in your staff or in your audience then what reason do I have to then patronize the business? Because it doesn't look as if I am welcome or people who look like me even frequent this space.” (07:08-07:24 | Shayla)
• “In the grand scheme of things is not a lot when you have thousands of winemakers out there, but there's over a hundred Black-owned wine brands in the industry.” (10:11-10:22 Shayla)
• “Wine is not something culturally in the African American community that we are educated on or exposed to as young children.” (13:30-13:39 | Shayla)
• “Black-owned wines are not different. They may have had a harder struggle or a longer journey to get where they are, but their wines are amazing and just as good.” (26:15-26:25 | Ashley)
• “As consumers, we need to go ask for Black-owned wines, and not just on Black History Month.” (26:33-26:37 | Ashley)
• “I make sure that I send my guests home with a black owned wine they can try themselves. That’s a way I can expose them to something different.” (28:22-28:30 | Ashley)
• “As your palate matures, you will start to grow an appreciation for drier and various styles of wine. It just takes time.” (35:55-36:05 | Shayla)
• “Wine is the perfect icebreaker and the perfect connector regardless of who it is or where they’re from.” (40:29-40:34 | Shayla)
Links
Connect with Ashley Rawlinson & Shayla Varnado:
https://www.blackgirlswine.com/
https://www.heritagewinesllc.com/
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Friday Nov 05, 2021
Friday Nov 05, 2021
Otto D'Agnolo is a recording engineer who has spent over 40 years of his life in the music business. He began his career in the music industry as a performer and then went on to become a recording engineer. Otto has had the pleasure of working with singers like Glen Campbell, Waylon Jennings, Billy Preston, American Idol winner Jordin Sparks, Kenny Rogers, and countless others. His work has also been featured on popular television shows such as The Jersey Shore, The Office, One Tree Hill and more. Otto’s hard work has even earned him an Emmy Award for songwriting! On today’s episode, Otto educates listeners about the important lessons he wishes he had known when starting out in the music industry.
Otto describes how great music is made. It starts with a catchy melody that sticks in your head, then a lyrical hook is added, and the rest falls into place to create an engaging and beautiful song. However, because of the way music is consumed today, artists only get about two to three seconds to engage the listener. Especially when listeners are impatiently looking for new music that resonates with their musical taste, they tend to skip songs at lightning speed. Otto explains that it is crucial to grab the listener right away, because if you intrigue them for the first two bars, they will stick around for four bars, eight bars, until they have given the song a thorough listen. Otto says that it is extremely important to do something groovy or unexpected in the first few bars to try and hook that audience, and from there, the listeners can decide if they like the song or not.
Tune into this week’s episode of Southern Soul Live Stream for a conversation with Otto D'Agnolo about the ins and outs of the recording industry. Learn more about how iTunes destroyed label branding, the power of TikTok on the music industry, and why having authority establishes trust for musicians. Then, check out Otto’s website linked below for an immersive musical experience!
Quotes
• “It's amazing how much more important it is to learn to listen well, before you try to play well.” (08:03-08:09)
• “I was so surprised to watch these three completely separate artists who've never crossed paths have that exact same process on the vocal microphone. I thought it was fascinating.” (11:51-12:02)
• “It's really learning to get the artists to let go of this wall they built around themselves to be safe, and to really try to get outside of what they've decided is their thing, because sometimes their thing is a lot bigger than they think it is. They just love that safe space that sounds great to them.” (19:28-19:38)
• “People don't trust you until they see the gold record on the wall, and then they listen to you.” (20:26-20:37)
• “What we found from polling our members is that it's not about the music. They love the process. They love the personalities. And I've got guys who have told me, ‘I would never have listened to this stuff. But now that I've watched you make it, I want to buy the record.’” (40:59-41:13)
• “I think that part of our problem, especially in this streaming world, is that we aren't listening to the album, so we're not getting the depth of artists. We’re listening to singles.” (1:04:36-1:04:44)
Links
Connect with Otto D’Agnolo:
https://www.therecordingartist.com/
https://apps.apple.com/us/app/otto-d/id1448060796
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